调查：中国学生无一人将父母列为受尊敬的人物

青青竹

Your children are not your children.
They are the sons and daughters of Life's longing for itself.
They come through you but not from you,
and though they are with you yet they belong not to you.
You may give them your love but not your thoughts,
For they have their own thoughts.
You may house their bodies but not their souls,
For their souls dwell in the house of tomorrow, which you cannnot visit, not even in your dreams.
You may strive to be like them, but seek not to make them like you.
For life goes not backward not tarries with yesterday.
- By Kahlil Gibran

flyingpet

我尊敬我的父母为我最尊敬的人
原因有:
1.虽然我的父母教育方式也有如上问题,但我不认为别的名人的教育下一带的方式就没问题了
2.家长从不会觉得自己的教育方式有问题的.但基本上80%都觉得自己父母的教育方式有问题.

小叮当

最初由[绝对零度]发布
我的母亲是我最尊敬的！！！！

零度(y)。

好久不见，最近好吗？

绝对零度

我的母亲是我最尊敬的！！！！

气定神闲

真是应该好好想一想，这到底是怎么啦？

sylvia

Thank you for your comments!
My english still needs improvement.
Here is my email and please feel free to contact if you want:
[email protected]

terry_zhouty

你英语真棒 ;)

sylvia

I never ask my son to do things just because I "missed" them in my childhood. For example, I never ask him to play piano, or whatever.
The key is that I still have a lot to achieve in my own life therefore bringing him up is not my "only job". I don't have time to force him to do things that he doesn't like. This approach actually leaves a lot of room for my kid and myself. We are individual, never treat your kids as part of youself.  
It is very important that as a parent, never think your kid is your only hope. You have your own life and own dream, what you have to do is to be a role model of  your kid and also give them a happy childhood and to make them to be confident and independent. Try to encourage them to read is one of the most important things. If he likes to read, he will know how to establish his life goal earlier. Though the goals may change but it is still important that he has goals at different stages. Just think back how you can become what you are today, never ask your kid to repeat things that you hated at that age.