Actually I just came back from China and I think your choice is correct and totally support your idea.
"十几年后我带着Canadian的头衔回国,恐怕国内事业有成的当年的同僚们,听都懒得一听呢" Even when you go back now,
if you mention you are from Canada, most people know it is hard place to live.
No any choice is perfect, anyway, at least your parents don't need to miss and worry about you so much. 2-year master studies + 4-year work, I have been here for 6 years, but I am still not suitable for the so called "canadian life".
Not only "因为你们付出了太多、太多", but also my parents 付出了太多、太多. Though I go back 2 times to visit them, my 6 years mean blank to them. Specially 1 month ago when I visited my parents, I feel my mom and dad more old. In the airport when I prepare flying back and see my mom's tear, I know
my parents miss me too much, my tear was going down too. At the time I type these words, my eyes are also red.
Such as fresh Air, good environment, ..., any of them can not be competitive with 亲情。Even in the polluted environment of China, many people also live too much longer.
After tax, I also don't think the so called "high salary" is more attractive. Say bye to Canada, don't need too much think,
at least my parents, brother and I don't miss each another. I already decide to leave soon. |