权和钱都不沾边：我是成功的加国草民

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感觉整篇文章都渗透着作者的无能，在国内平平的草民，却找原因解释不是他的无能；到了加拿大靠拿EI来辅佐坐月子的老婆，却仍然把自己的无能喜悦于加拿大的福利。

可悲呀。。。。。。

zhen2005

I admire the way that author understand and enjoy the life.  Unfortunately, I can never reach that level.   I am not that kind of person who care about what the other people consider me or want to show up in front of other people, but I still can not get rid of the idea that success means that you have a decent job, fair financial security and of course a beautiful house.  I had studied hard before and have been working hard now.  Not for others but for myself.  I am very busy but also happy and enjoy the time with family.   

The best thing in Canada is you can choose the way you live.  No matter which level you are you can always have basic support.  You don't need to worry about your healthcare bill and your kids tuition fee, you can get financial support from government if you really lost ability to feed up you and your family.   Different people have different way to manage their life, just you feel comfortable.

zhen2005

回复 33# GPS1

"很多人一身追逐名利，虽不得，但孜孜不倦。"
May be most of time, people are looking for self-accomplishment.  This desire push human self-improve as well as our society improve.   If anyone can really reach the level of 禅宗六祖.  I don't understand why they are come to Canada.  What is the different between China or Canada if 本来无一物.  I believe most people immigrant because they have dream, wish better life and more opportunity.  If you get what you want in this country that is prefect.  If you can not get what you original want in this country, but accept it, enjoy it and happy with it, that is totally OK.  I just don't believe someone come here without any dream.  追逐名利 is never be a bad time, just you do it in the proper way.

zhen2005

回复  GPS1

"很多人一身追逐名利，虽不得，但孜孜不倦。"
May be most of time, people are looking for self-accomplishment.  This desire push human self-improve as well as our society improve.   If anyone can really reach the level of 禅宗六祖.  I don't understand why they are come to Canada.  What is the different between China or Canada if 本来无一物.  I believe most people immigrant because they have dream, wish better life and more opportunity.  If you get what you want in this country that is prefect.  If you can not get what you original want in this country, but accept it, enjoy it and happy with it, that is totally OK.  I just don't believe someone come here without any dream.  追逐名利 is never be a bad time, just you do it in the proper way.
zhen2005 发表于 2011-5-17 19:11

Sorry, for the mistake, should be 追逐名利 is never be a bad thing, just you do it in the proper way.

老杰克

英雄所见略同。但难为大多数人认同，因为“知天命”者寥。

天好

再回头细看文章，原来国内成功的人士都是大树罩着或树二代，昧着良心攀爬植物很无骨气的人，作者不成功是没有这些条件。
不是每个人都这样的，很多人的成功都是靠自己奋斗得到的。

稀泥派 老刘

孩子要跟父母在一起，孩子要跟兄弟姐妹在一起是一个不可动摇的原则，否则为了一时的轻松，要欠一辈子也还不清的感情债:thumbu:

zhen2005

谈不上成功，只不过加拿大不会给不成功者太大压力，也尽量不让不成功者自卑，这就是加拿大的好处了
高尔山 发表于 2011-5-17 20:00

Exactly!

cacharles

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铁人

总是春心对风语，最恨人间累功名。谁见金银成山传万代?千古只贵一片情! 朗月清空，星光伴我，往事如烟挥手行。 痴情傲金，荣华若土，笑揖红尘舞长空! --------中国大陆知名投资人王功权

simple222

可喜可贺。你可以脱去“移民 ”这一称号了，许多加拿大本土人就是这样的生活观念。

zhen2005

回复 48# simple222

I know lots of native canadian.  They at least have their own property.    Base on my knowledge, there are lots of refugee that live in a renting house and get support from government then raising bunch of children.   Native canadian won't judge your lifestyle, but I don't think they consider this successful.

lsxuejun

作者
作者过的才是真正的生活，人贵知足长乐，不过古今住来又有几人能看的透各利场；到加拿大的目的不就是为了呼吸点新鲜自由的空气，不再为名为利心累,
钱再多，只吃一碗饭；房再大，只睡半张床。
向作者致敬，向作者敬礼。
我的Email:[email protected].我们多交流，很喜欢交你这样的朋友

lsxuejun

回复 47# 铁人


    绝唱

小南瓜

这样好，没房没储蓄的。到时孩子待了款上大学，好多的部分不用还。政府会送给小孩读大学的钱。