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回复 2# hongchen
How many truth you need?
Wrong doing is wrong doing. Any excuse can't make it be reasonable to put your mom in the freezing garage. Only reason is heartless and unbeliveable.
I asked my 10 years old son that day when we watching the news. " if I be old and demential one day. If your kids complain that I make the house smell terrible, what would you do?" "I will tell them that they also smell very bad when they are babies" My son looked at me and give me the answer very seriously.
I was touching by his answer. To be honesty, it is beyond my expectation, what I could expect is he would stop his potential kids and ask them to respect their grandparents even they are old and sick.
But, I believe that is the best answer. You also smell bad when you are baby if your parents didn't take care of you. You also need someone to spend lots of time and energy to take care when you are a baby. Not mention all the care they gave to your in your life.
I feel sad the so many mature Chinese adult don't have basic understanding and responsibility as my 10 year old son. Some many people looking for the excuses for something could not be excuse.
What you give out will turn back one day to yourself. I just wish people who feel it is reasonable to put an elderly demential lady in garage will not regret when they are old. No matter what, that day will come. |
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